In conversations with Loret, she asked why people do this. Why do they spend all this time joining a group of girls and why do they spend so much time on an organization once they are in. It's not about the shirts with the letters delta phi epsilon on it, it's not about a name on a resume. It's about finding a family. People you can laugh with, cry with, crawl into their arms if you are having a bad day. I remember contemplating joining and thinking about the exact same things. In the end it's about relationships and finding a family with a group of girls that have the same values as you do.